On Behavior, Religion, and Love「We Need To Pause, And Take Stock Of Our Minds」 Now University students are very busy and lose their composure. Instead of freedom and enjoyment, they feel pressure and stress through campus life. At this juncture, I recommend a book to them who feel this way. The first chapter is about rest. It emphasizes break time, no stress and time for ourselves. It give us time to relax. The second chapter is about relationships. This part describes forgiveness and good relations. Detestation and bad thoughts are left behind after this chapter because it teaches us ways to forgive. The third chapter is about the future. This depicts living an independent life, experiencing various things and not compromising. We constantly compete with each other. This chapter says competition is unnecessary. The fourth chapter is about life. This chapter emphasizes ignoring other people’s attention and living happily. The writer realized three things when he looked into his mind. The first is that other people are not as interested in us as we think. Secondly, it is not necessary for everybody to like us. Finally, the way we behave to other people is the way we should behave to ourselves. This three things give viewpoint for only myself. The fifth chapter is about love. This chapter emphasizes to loving other people and to love ourselves. This chapter also teaches us what love is and the importance of love. The sixth chapter talks about asceticism. This chapter emphasizes to simply inside our mind. It suggests 'to know our mind' and 'to become intimate with our mind'is important than 'mind control' The seventh chapter is about passion. This chapter emphasizes thinking about other people and to control passion. The eighth chapter is about religion. This chapter emphasizes accepting others. Although religions are different from each other, they each have something in common. Therefore, we should accept other religions. and not ignore them. This book gives us an advice. In summary, 'when we stop. we can see at last' which is the title of the book. We shouldn’t think that we are too busy to miss valuable situations. Stop! Love every minute so you can be happy.
Sol-Bi Lee  l.l.f@hanmail.net